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How to develop your child's self-esteem

Claudia Rios-Gastelum LMFT

Claudia Rios-Gastelum
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

How to Develop Your Child's Self-Esteem

Spring 2025

Claudia shares that self-esteem is the cornerstone of our child's ability to grow into happy and healthy adults.  Helping them believe in themselves that they are capable of doing things, it helps them identify their internal and external strengths, thereby enabling them to overcome challenges.

 

She shares three important parent and caregiver resources to help build their self-esteem. 

 

The first resource is identifying their strengths and qualities.  Together with your child:

  • Identify things they're good at

  • Compliments they have received 

  • What they like about their appearance

  • Challenges they have overcome

  • How they have helped others

  • Things that make them unique

  • What they value the most

  • Times when they made someone else happy

Then work with your child to identify their positive traits.

Lastly, together with your child or have them do this themselves (if they're old enough) start a daily journal of positive things they did, saw or experienced through the week.

Featured resources

My strengths and qualties

My strengths and qualities

My positive traits

My positive traits

My self-esteem journal

My self-esteem journal

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